I kind of want to take this time to do an ahhh sound! Much better. Back to work today. Spring in the air. New road ahead. God i miss work. Is that pathetic? I think not. Just a bit overwhelming. I was having a conversation with my boyfriend yesterday about relationships and such and we were talking about a few of my girlfriends. Then the topic came up whether men and women want the same thing from a relationship... I got an instant 'No' on the phone. So what exactly do men and women want from each other? I’ve been thinking about this all day. Any Idea? Why is there a need to fall in love? Why do we do this? I fail to be comforted by the notion that its in our DNA and based on our survival instinct of reproduction. Sorry boys that theory doesn’t cut it. In fact a lot more people are opting for the Couple life with no little rugarats. So the need to pass on ones genes must not be that strong. I also fail to be comforted by the idea that we are just lonely...I mean I have girlfriends and family that provide enough love and attention when I need it. In fact I used to be with someone and felt just as isolated as I did without him, if not more. Is it the social influences on us that dictate that we need to be with someone in order to be happy and successful?
I have no idea. Why is it that I have fallen in love? What is it exactly that makes me happy about this person and why is there this uncontrollable need to build a relationship? What is it that I want from this? What does the other person look to gain in this? Are we moving towards the same thing? Should we discuss what our motives are towards each other? Should we not? Should I take the Laisse faire approach Or more proactive
Feel like my brain may over heat... too much to think about... okay no more thinking...
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